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這星期是我上台演講的第3次，臨陣磨槍果然不行，雖說講稿出自我手，但沒經過演練的肢體聲音仍舊是不合格(在我感覺啦)。下次如果把過程錄影下來，不知是否能幫助我進步更多?這次的演講是我的肺腑心聲，從以前到現在一直的感受，有種不說不快的感覺。在我本人看來是很像發洩不滿的碎碎念啦…How to plan a tirp.不是How to plant a tree喔~

最近看了很多本書，昨天的一本「旅行與人生的奧義」簡直講到我的心坎裡。你的旅遊風格會決定你的人生風格!我的個性習慣遷就他人，只要是有人提出意見，總是勉強自己去配合別人，心裡悶著許多不快。心裡總是在吶喊，有意見就請跳出來解決，總是期待主辦人我會有很大的困擾，不然就請全權讓我處理禁聲吧!奇怪的意見理由不僅讓我困惑，不同的行事風格也令人困擾。終於懂得Linch喜歡自己一人旅遊的原因，自由自在。我的字典裡沒有「找一天再…」這些字，因為我不知道人生的終點何時會到來，幾使你說「找一天再…」，也不能保證那一天一定會到來。相對的，你也有可能不會再有相同的機會。這麼去想、去行動的話，人生的每一瞬間，就會成為既鮮明而濃厚的記憶。我絕對不要有「我好想做什麼，但卻沒能去做的遺憾。」

對我來說，遊玩永遠優於工作，這是我人生的目的。我有無止境的好奇心想多聽多看。一直以來身邊的人拿我做特立獨行的人，就是愛玩…終於找到志同道合的人「大前研一」先生，旅行正是人生。「日月可比百代之過客，離去時會再度成為旅人」人生只有一次，為了過的更快樂、更豐富，所有想做之事要全部去做。旅遊風格，就是人生風格。旅行的美妙，不在於名勝古蹟，而是「能有一段漂泊的時間」無所事事的發呆，或是在小巷子裡迷路，看見當地居民為什麼事而快樂，你會確定自己想要追求什麼樣的人生。旅行，不只是隨性的邂逅，更是所有思考的原點；一生至少要有一次的「壯遊」自己決定步調、掌握當下的果斷；即知即行，你會發現豐富人生的契機就在旅遊中!

所以親愛的朋友，雖然我很喜歡跟你們一起同遊，但我也不喜歡亂了自己的步調，如果下次還是由我當總召，就請讓我全權處理，不然就請接手吧…(以上摘自「大前研一」-旅行與人生的奧義)

Do you like travel? Have you ever host a trip before? Do you think it’s easy to arrange everything in time? My classmates and I have traveled together once a year to refresh our friendship since we graduate from university. We have already been to Kenting、CHI-CHI、Green Island、Hualien and Peng-hu. It’s very excited to have an outing with them. But do you know how to plan a trip? It’s not easy to prepare everything before a trip. All the boys of my classmate are lazy guys, they just want to enjoy the trip without doing anything. So girls have to take care of everything every time. It’s difficult to persuade my boyfriend to host the activity this time. Until now, he has known it’s not easy to arrange everything in time before trip; so he suggests me to write this topic to put everything in order.

First of all, you have to decide a time that everybody probably can attend the best one is successive holidays. Besides, you have to consider how many day that trip will be. Does anyone want to take a rest at home at least one day? Moreover, you have to consider two or more places to let them to choose form. Furthermore, where do you want to stay, you have to think about prices, space and if it locates in downtown. Sometimes home stay are fully booked on the internet that means you have to ask or search for other information as much as you can. After that, you have to think lots of ways of the transportation, such as train, bus, rent a car or drive by your own. Last but not the least, you have to connect your friends, ask them if they want to join it or not. It’s the last thing I enjoy. I really hate this job, because my dear classmates always think too much that they can not answer me right away. They always ask me to wait for them until the time is pressing. You can see how all my schedule will be delayed with this, because I am not sure how many people will join this trip. I can not prepare for it.

Like this time, there are more then 12 person who want to attend this trip at the first time I asked. Some of them said I will give you the answer one week or two weeks later. But time goes by. Someone told me he just broke up with his girlfriend so he was too depressed to attend. The other one said he is sorry because he can’t take that day off. And another uses another different kinds of excuse. Why do you just answer me yes or no when I asked you at the first time? To me it’s very difficult to guess real meaning in sentence.

When I’m sure how many members there will be in this trip, the next thing I have to do is booking a Home stay and arrange the transportation to get to the place. I always remember once of time we planed to go to the Green Island by train. That time, the other girl and I have had to wake up at 6:00 in the morning to booking tickets to Tai dong by phone. I remember we have tried almost 2 weeks because we could not take any seats. So we keep trying and trying to book tickets of someone cancelled or forgot to take. We got lots of pimples but finally we got it. It was quite a very difficult job that I ever do. 

You have to arrange all the things at least 2 month ago. Since everyone in Taiwan now like to take a trip in holiday. My dear boyfriend he didn’t know about that so he did everything slowly. Until the time is pressing, he suddenly found he can not book any Home stay and boat tickets. Because he wants to wait everyone answer him that they want to join or not. It’s mean I have to became a back seat driver again. I search for lots of information as much as I could. I called Home stay’s owner which one was full. I asked them to help me to find an empty Home stay. Luckily, I booked boat tickets although they’re very expensive. I also booked a Home stay, huge and really cheap one.

In each trip you might got some problems. You have to use your EQ and IQ to figure it out. For example, when I prepare everything well. There were always some one will told to me can I let him in or out. Even in the trip, they are still have lots of problems, like the schedule was too tight or we just have no idea where we should go in next minute. You have to use all of your intelligence to make everything perfect. Because the trip should full of happy but not trouble. So now you will know it’s very difficult to host a trip. If you attend a trip next time that you are not very satisfied, please think about what they do about the whole trip and you will stop complain and start to brainstorm.